“I’m just trying my best” Have you ever thought that when you feel like NOTHING is going right? YEP. Been there. I sometimes call those days I’m-going-to-cry-my-eyes-out-and-it’s-only-10am-days. The goal with those type of days is to reduce and recontrol. Let me explain… Reduce I don’t know about you, but I’d like as few bad days as possible. Can I avoid them 100% of the time, no. NOT. EVEN. CLOSE. But I can choose to take control of my life and do all the things to set mysel

Ever wonder how some women get it all done in a day? Here is the secret: They use their morning! Now I'm sure you "use" your morning too, but the secret to getting more out of life is getting more out of the time you do have. That is why today's video is all about the ideal morning routine for my working babes out there. These 7 tips will help you: 1. Get more done EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. 2. Help set you up for more happiness throughout your day. 3. Free your time up later in the

Have you ever been so overwhelmed with everything in your life you just don't know where to even start? BEEN THERE.🙋‍♀️🤦‍♀️ That is why I've found a 4 part system to organizing my life to help me get more done, and most importantly keep my sanity. My first tip is a no-brainer but you will see that combining all 4 of these tips (BTW you can do all of 4 steps in an hour I PROMISE) you will see a big difference in organizing your life! Check out my video link below. #howtoorga

REAL MOMENT: Last month nothing was routine, or "intentional" about my day. My diet was off, my sleeping was off, my outfits were mostly sweat/hoodie combos. Living my best life? Probs not. BUT at least I knew that. I knew that I'd fallen off track when it came to my routines and habits. 😨😨😨 We all fall off from time to time, and we need to take a moment and not only recognize what is happening our lives but know it's OKAY 👈👈👈 Our lives go through seasons of change big

Ladies, today is #girltalk 101 and the topic is: Dating a Narcissist 😨 Has your boyfriend/significant other done any of the following: 1. Treated you better when you've dressed up 2. Flirted with other women 3. Ignored you when they are with other people 4. Blamed you when something didn't go right for them 👉☹️👇 If ANY of these things has happened to you, this week's video is for you! Because ALL of these above situations have happened to me in past relationships and I wis

WORK LIFE BALANCE 😨 Is it even real? This week I am sharing with you my top 4 tips on achieving work life balance for YOU and YOUR own life. Because if your life is anything like mine you are worried about: Work, family, kids, relationships, events, holidays, neighbors, dinner, your house and not to forget your yard! (Just to name a few). So if you are like me and struggle with feeling overwhelmed this video is for you! ALSO I might drop some major big news in this video so

MONEY! Now that I have your attention 😜 let's talk about money. It's something that can make or break your happiness if you let it. So this week I've put together my best tips for teenagers on how to budget and use personal finances to set themselves up for a better future. Because letzbereal learning how to manage money when you are young is HARD! So I've simplified it into 5 easy steps to take away the confusion and fear of managing your money. What I've found with my coac

Do you have some NONSENSE in your life? I know that I have struggled with this in the past! It seems that all of us really have to fight to keep what matters most in our lives and DESTROY the nonsense that will creep in if we let it. And what is nonsense? Anything that detracts from your progress, success and most importantly your happiness. And while that sounds really simple to see and root out of your life...it isn't. In my coaching career I have found that teens and stude

Already rethinking your 2019 goals? Check out my latest speech: Loving Yourself Through Change to help get you back on track! In this video, I share the 3 steps you can follow to: 1. Get you to your goals faster 2. Help you balance real life and progress 3. Realized you can love yourself through change The link to all these tips is right here or simply click on the link below. Love, AJ #lovingyourselfthroughchange #womenmotivationalspeakers #motivationalblog #femalemot

You asked and I answered! First of all, THANK YOU for participating in my first ever Q&A on my channel. It was so much fun to hear from you! (If you missed out be sure to follow me on Instagram @ajlifehacks_) Second, be sure to check out my video and if I missed your question leave me a comment on YOUTUBE and I will be sure to answer! Love, AJ #PersonalDevelopment #personaldevelopmentquestions #AjLifeHacks #QAwithme #AbbiWinslow

If you aren't a student at any level (i.e. jr. high to college) or know a student then you have my full permission to disregard this blog post. If you ARE a student or know a student then you DON'T want to miss this video! When I speak at schools, I have found that SO many students don't know how to set goals that are relevant to their goals right now. So this week I am sharing the tips that any student can use to: -get better grades -set realistic and still stretchin

It's the LAST DAY of 2018! Does that freak you out? Are you excited? Are you afraid to look over last year's list of goals? Well, I don't know about you but I love New Years. Annnnnd not because of fireworks and staying up late (I don't do either). It's because you get a chance to start new. Tonight (this week, even next week) you have the chance to sit down and ask yourself: What do I want to do with my life? It's empowering. BUT only if you take the right steps to plan

When was the last time you did something that really scared you? For me, it was doing this video. Why? Lots of reasons. 1. It's different than the other videos on my channel--what if it flops? What if no one watches? What if it is weird? 2. It's raw. It's real. It shares personal information about my life--SCARY. What if people reject ME? I'll spare you the whole list, but those were just a few of the ideas I had swimming in my head this week as I prepped and edited my video.

9/10 times when I am asked to speak at a Young Women's fireside the topic recommendation has something to do with INDIVIDUAL WORTH. It has really made me stop and think: why do most teens, youth and women struggle with individual worth? I know I did when I was younger 🙋‍♀️ So this week I did a video focused solely on 3 tips to help you understand and improve your individual worth. Check it out by following the link below to my channel! Love, Abbi J #individualworth #latterd

Discovering your purpose in life can be, well, a little bit daunting. There seems to be this HUGE fear not to get it wrong. Well in this week's life hack video I am sharing with you 3 tips on finding your purpose in life and how finding your purpose will change everything about your life. Check it out by clicking on the video below! #discoveringyourpurposeinlife #howtoknowyourpurposeinlife #howtoknowyourpurposeinlifefromGod #AjLifeHacks #Purpose #Christianpurpose

Who wants to be happier in life? 🙋‍♀️ I think it's safe to say that all of us could use a boost every now and then on our happiness and positive out look on life. So this week I focused on 4 tips on finding more happiness within yourself. Check it out by following the video below. #findinghappinesswithinyourself #howtobehappierwithyourself #howtobemorehappyandpositiveinlife #happinesswithin #AjLifeHacks #happiness #positivity

Have you been bullied in the past? Or maybe you are being bullied right now. I would argue that ALL OF US, (every single person) has been bullied at some time in their life. Bullying, teasing, making fun of, hurting (emotionally and physically) is NEVER okay. And even when we know bullying is bad, we still sometime struggle to know the best ways to take care of the bullying problem. So that is why this week I focused on a video that teaches anti-bullying tips and bullying sol

Self Confidence. It's a very, very funny thing. One day you can feel on top of the world and the next...you are wondering what isn't wrong with you. Self esteem and self confidence are HARD to figure out. That is why this week I've spent HOURS researching and thinking over the best tips I could share with you and here they are. Get these tips by clicking on the video down below. Enjoy! xoxo, Abbi J #howtoimproveteenageselfesteem #howtoboostselfconfidence #selfesteem #selfconf

Rejection sucks. It just does. It doesn't matter how old, rich, poor, beautiful, cool, or your stage of life--rejection in any form can be devastating. That is why when I started filming this week's video I really had to keep myself from going down the rabbit hole of past rejections! So with that said, this week's video is all about rejection and how to bounce back from it! Specifically I focused on rejection in high school but the two tips that I share can be used at ANY sta

"Strategic thinking rarely occurs spontaneously." -Michael Porter Isn't that true? And to be honest, this week I've done a lot of thinking about...well thinking. More specifically STRATEGIC THINKING and why it's one of the buzzwords of the internet. Everyone wants to be "strategic," and in theory it sounds really good. Whenever I would hear people talking about being more strategic with our company goals, or vision, or day-to-day living, I had the attitude of "sure. Whatever.